THE OVERCOME STUDENT LIE

The lie is not negative opinion forever. In the situation and condition some one must lie. As soon as goodness. Even Rosullullah saw ever says something not suitable with reality to some one on the road. That moment, there is someone is chasing by criminal. Then, that criminal begin to lose foot print and ask to Rosullullah, “ Hi, my brothe are you know some one is run to exceed here?” “ I don’t know!” Rosullullah answered.
In now, will we saying some thing that as it should be to happen. If there is some one that we don’t to know to carry sharp weapon to seek our students. Sure this all answer is not.

The word lie, if that is done by the students. Please to look for the background why the students lie, if the students had done it. It must be avoided and given advice in order not become bad habit. If we are not successful to teach the students lie. It can make them for doing bad habit. The lie likes this is very bad and that is the source of the sin.
Almost if they were lie since they were child. If some one used to be lie since they were child although that is for good will. Actually lie. If they had been done it. Next time if they will be adult they will be lier.

It needs to pay attention that it often happens that the studens don’t understand why they must lie. In this condition we must response it as soon as possible. They key is that we must understand the background that makes the studens lie immediately. Of couse, it isn’t an easy job for us to be done but it must be tried. The effort to seek the cause of the lying of the studens is vitally needed. It is imposible for us to be able to solve the problem accurately, effectively and logically if we don’t know the background when the students must lie to us.

Next time teacher says to students abouth home work. Who is not do home work? They are answer, already. Where as, if it is checked one by one, among them, there students who have not done the task yet. There, they begin tofeel safe behind their lying. They do their lying more because of their affraidness if they get punishmen, in anather case, they may often meet although they say the thruth, they get the punishment in return.

At first glance, the students who date to lie are reasonable to be punished because what they have done is culpable indeed. But the educations or teachers and parents need to be careful in playing the punishment to the students because their braveness to lie is tittle more cause by their teacher or their parents mistaken in doing something daily and that they have never realized in applying the punishment.

The is not mind by the child except the dream of honesly. That will be dangerous for them selves. According to them that the lie can make safe. If we are not always give punishment. There is not be afraid for the child to say true. What they had done. We can explain to the students that their behaviour is not right and don’t do it again. that is not suitable for us to lok for the solution for the child’s mistakes with hard way, hard punishment or to expose their mistakes. Actually it can make a bad child’s progress. Giving punishment must be exit but giving loving must be suitable with giving discipline. Please understanding for the child that honesty is good, although it is not suitable for the child.

It needs to us for child’s progress is lie for goodness must to avoided.
The child don’t know difference direction of lie for goodwell and doing bad habit. They are only to take generalitation contruction of their behaviour, well school habit or home habit that lie next time it needs and can make safe from all punishment. So this their motive, lie fixed lie and not goodness. More if take in with process education child’s progress,

Wallahu’alam bissawab.